Category: Lifestyle

Friday Favorites {03.22.24}

Our littlest baby is turning one next week. This snuck up on me like you wouldn’t believe. It feels like a minute ago he surprised us all coming three weeks early. It doesn’t feel possible that my last baby will officially not be a baby anymore in less than a week. It’s hard for me to adequately put into words how surreal that is for me.

But we’ll save birthday celebrations until then…and for now, I hope you guys have a great Friday and a fun weekend ahead!

This spring planter turned out just gorgeous. Better than I could have ever imagined or dreamt up. I’m completely obsessed with the dusty pinks, bright yellows, and mossy greens. It is absolutely STUNNING.

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Friday Favorites {03.08.24}

Happy, happy Friday, friends! This is our last weekend before spring sports and activities starts up. I’m itching to get out to the garden center and get some spring planters done at our house and clients’ houses, so they’ll be ready for Easter. Hope you all have a great weekend planned!

While baby Aidan was home sick earlier this week, we used the time to change out our decor to add some SPRING to our house.

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Winter 2024 Book Recap

My last book recap was in the Fall, and since then, I’ve read six books! One of them has the makings of a new classic, it was that good. I had some thrillers, some fluff, and some memoirs. So, let’s get into it! And tell me in the comments if you’ve read any of these, too! I’d love to know what you thought of them.

The Housemaid by Freida McFadden

“Welcome to the family,” Nina Winchester says as I shake her elegant, manicured hand. I smile politely, gazing around the marble hallway. Working here is my last chance to start fresh. I can pretend to be whoever I like. But I’ll soon learn that the Winchesters’ secrets are far more dangerous than my own…

Every day I clean the Winchesters’ beautiful house top to bottom. I collect their daughter from school. And I cook a delicious meal for the whole family before heading up to eat alone in my tiny room on the top floor.

I try to ignore how Nina makes a mess just to watch me clean it up. How she tells strange lies about her own daughter. And how her husband Andrew seems more broken every day. But as I look into Andrew’s handsome brown eyes, so full of pain, it’s hard not to imagine what it would be like to live Nina’s life. The walk-in closet, the fancy car, the perfect husband.

I only try on one of Nina’s pristine white dresses once. Just to see what it’s like. But she soon finds out… and by the time I realize my attic bedroom door only locks from the outside, it’s far too late.

But I reassure myself: the Winchesters don’t know who I really am.

They don’t know what I’m capable of…

I could not put this down. That is, I was looking for every last single free spot in my day to pop in my AidPods and see how this would go down. And wow, I did not see it coming. Not at all. After finishing it, I immediately added the next two books to my want to read list!

A Killer’s Wife by Victor Methos

Fourteen years ago, prosecutor Jessica Yardley’s husband went to prison for a series of brutal murders. She’s finally created a life with her daughter and is a well-respected attorney. She’s moving on. But when a new rash of homicides has her ex-husband, Eddie, written all over them—the nightmares of her past come back to life.

The FBI asks Jessica to get involved in the hunt for this copycat killer—which means visiting her ex and collaborating with the man who tore her life apart.

As the copycat’s motives become clearer, the new life Jessica created for herself gets darker. She must ask herself who she can trust and if she’s capable of stopping the killer—a man whose every crime is a bloody valentine from a twisted mastermind she’s afraid she may never escape.

If you’re a thriller lover, this is another GREAT one. (Am I thriller book lover now?!) I was so caught up in trying to figure this one out. The main character was so interesting to me: her backstory, the way that she acted, her strength. I was very very into it. Until we found out who the killer was, and then it got a little boring for me. The trial part of the book was just mediocre, in my opinion.

One in a Millennial by Kate Kennedy

One In a Millennial is an exploration of pop culture, nostalgia, the millennial zeitgeist, and the life lessons learned (for better and for worse) from coming of age as a member of a much-maligned generation.

Kate is a pop culture commentator and host of the popular millennial-focused podcast Be There in Five. Part-funny, part-serious, Kate navigates the complicated nature of celebrating and criticizing the culture that shaped her as a woman, while arguing that great depths can come from surface-level interests.

With her trademark style and vulnerability, One In a Millennial is sharp, hilarious, and heartwarming all at once. She tackles AOL Instant Messenger, purity culture, American Girl Dolls, going out tops, Spice Girl feminism, her feelings about millennial motherhood, and more. Kate’s laugh-out-loud asides and keen observations will have you nodding your head and maybe even tearing up.

I’ve listened to Kate Kennedy’s podcast (Be There in Five) on and off for a couple of years. While the ability to properly articulate how millennial culture shaped my world view and view of myself has evaded me for years, Kate seems to have a knack for analyzing our collective millennial upbringing and bring order and words to its impact on why millennials are the way they are. From the desperate need to fit in, navigating mental health with mental health illness was really just starting to be discussed as a legitimate thing, and the all importance of American Girl dolls, I LOVED this book. I found myself remembering things about my childhood that I had forgotten, and nodding along and having ‘aha’ moments along the way for some of our shared experiences. Her book sounds just like her podcasts, and I adored it.

Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver

Set in the mountains of southern Appalachia, Demon Copperhead is the story of a boy born to a teenaged single mother in a single-wide trailer, with no assets beyond his dead father’s good looks and copper-colored hair, a caustic wit, and a fierce talent for survival. Relayed in his own unsparing voice, Demon braves the modern perils of foster care, child labor, derelict schools, athletic success, addiction, disastrous loves, and crushing losses. Through all of it, he reckons with his own invisibility in a popular culture where even the superheroes have abandoned rural people in favor of cities.

Many generations ago, Charles Dickens wrote David Copperfield from his experience as a survivor of institutional poverty and its damages to children in his society. Those problems have yet to be solved in ours. Dickens is not a prerequisite for listeners of this novel, but he provided its inspiration. In transposing a Victorian epic novel to the contemporary American South, Barbara Kingsolver enlists Dickens’ anger and compassion, and above all, his faith in the transformative powers of a good story. Demon Copperhead speaks for a new generation of lost boys, and all those born into beautiful, cursed places they can’t imagine leaving behind.

It feels too early in the year to call something potentially the best book of the year, but this may actually be one of the best books I have ever READ. Period. I wouldn’t be surprised if this book becomes required reading in high school English classes when Harrison is in high school. It was SO well written. I felt so deeply for this character and his journey through life. Through so many tough breaks, and still beautifully redeeming. Ugh. It was fantastic. Please, go read it!

A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller

Full of beautiful, heart-wrenching, and hilarious stories, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years details one man’s opportunity to edit his life as if her were a character in a movie. Years after writing his best-selling memoir, Donald Miller went into a funk and spent months sleeping in and avoiding his publisher. One story had ended, and Don was unsure how to start another. But he gets rescued by two movie producers who want to make a movie based on his memoir. When they start fictionalizing Don’s life for film – changing a meandering memoir into a structured narrative – the real-life Don starts a journey to edit his actual life into a better story.

A Million Miles in a Thousand Years details that journey and challenges listeners to reconsider what they strive for in life. It shows how to get a second chance at life the first time around.

Given that just about every other book I had read up to this point was great or absolutely fantastic, this one just seemed ‘ok.’ I had a hard time getting into it. I appreciated the parallels he was trying to draw to really fully live life, but I struggled to really dive fully into it.

My Sister’s Keeper by Jodi Picoult

Anna is not sick, but she might as well be. By age 13 she has undergone countless surgeries, transfusions, and shots so that her older sister, Kate, can somehow fight the leukemia that has plagued her since childhood. The product of preimplantation genetic diagnosis, Anna was conceived as a bone marrow match for Kate – a life and a role that she has never challenged…until now. Like most teenagers, Anna is beginning to question who she truly is. But unlike most teenagers, she has always been defined in terms of her sister – and so Anna makes a decision that for most would be unthinkable, a decision that will tear her family apart and have perhaps fatal consequences for the sister she loves.

My Sister’s Keeper examines what it means to be a good parent, a good sister, a good person. Is it morally correct to do whatever it takes to save a child’s life, even if that means infringing upon the rights of another? Is it worth trying to discover who you really are if that quest makes you like yourself less? Should you follow your own heart or let others lead you? Once again, in My Sister’s Keeper, Jodi Picoult tackles a controversial real-life subject with grace, wisdom, and sensitivity.

Jodi Picoult can do no wrong, in my opinion. If I want a book that’s going to make me cry, I can pretty much guarantee that her books will do that. This one was no exception. What a heart wrenching story. I felt for the daughter. I felt for the parents. Oh my goodness. It was a wonderful, good cry.

Friday Favorites {02.16.24}

I started to write this post early in the week. Since that point in time, you may have seen that there was a mass shooting in Kansas City at the Super Bowl parade celebration. Harrison & I were at the parade with my sister, her husband, and my niece. Many of our friends were at the parade and rally with our kids. Everyone that I know personally is ok. But 20+ people were injured in that shooting, eleven of them children, and at least one person lost their life.

We had the most fun celebrating our Chiefs, and another Super Bowl victory. It breaks my heart for what transpired after the rally – for the families hurt, the trauma that no doubt many of us will now deal with resulting from yet another senseless act of violence.

What had started as such a fun day that I will cherish forever turned into a somber reminder of what a broken country we live in. Whatever the events leading up to people pulling guns and firing into crowds, I quite frankly don’t care. I don’t particularly care if we blame mental health. Or the guns. Or any other number of things. Our country is so broken. And it makes me want to scream and cry all at the same time. It destroys me to have a child who was already waking up from nightmares about guns, and now to have this on top of it. That I can’t tell him that it’s going to get better. That this won’t be the type of world that he will live in forever.

And instead to have to reassure him he’s safe in our home…and in my mind to have to wonder how safe is he really when he leaves this home.

As I sit here with tears streaming down my face having to grapple with this issue yet again, and this time so close to home, I wish I could tie this up in a pretty bow. But I’m just completely broken up.

While I was already feeling overwhelmed before the events in KC just with too many balls in the air right now, I’ve now reached a point where I know I need a break. I need to step away for a week or so and try to re-center myself. To allow myself time to process, check a few things off my to-do list, and just right this ship.

So, I’m going to share some favorites from the happier times lately, because there are reasons to celebrate and smile, always. But I’m going to give myself a pause after today until I can process some things for myself.

I’m sorry for such a sad note, but I’m not one to pretend like everything is fine when it’s not. Take care of yourselves, friends, and hug your babies.

We are celebrating my favorite, number one guy this weekend! His birthday is on Monday, but our little family is celebrating him this weekend.

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Our Finished Basement

Our basement project is officially finished! And while we are still tweaking, adding, and will be getting used to living in our basement, I wanted to share some pictures of the final finished project!

We were so happy with how it turned out. Both Nathan and I have said that it’s exceeded our expectations, and it feels like a warm cozy place that we can really live in and enjoy as a family. Mission accomplished!

You may remember my mood board for the basement…

Here’s a look at what it looked like before with our basement renovation ‘lite’

The sports room….which is still the sports room and the only space we didn’t do anything to in this renovation.

And here’s a look at the new basement now…

Looking from the stairs down the hallway to the new “bedroom”/playroom…

Looooove finally having a bathroom down here. Especially for the kids.

The new playroom/bedroom…

Aidan here modeling its playroom features. 🙂

And the entertainment room area…

Literally every last person who worked on this project thought Nathan was crazy to leave this “window” area open to the sports room. But it may be the best feature of all. The boys can play in the sports room, and the adults can hang out in the entertainment room and we can actually see through to what’s happening in there without balls flying out of the sports room.

It’s truly genius for this stage in our lives.

Here’s a look from the sports room into the entertainment room…

We absolutely love, love, love this basement now. It makes such a huge difference to have a place to play that is comfortable for the kids AND the adults.

I’m going to work on a separate post with sources of everything, cost, and all of those fun details! For now, it’s just pictures!

I’m also doing one of my very favorite things today…

Praying over our Christmas cards. One big cup of coffee and a stack of cards to pray over.

Our Cozy Christmas Home 2023

The tree is decorated, my winter containers are done and looking festive, and the house is full of twinkly lights, cozy candles, and holiday cheer. Grab your warm coffee and come cozy up in our holiday home…

Did I stand in the rain to take this picture? I sure did.

Our warm living room…

My favorite piece from Nathan’s Grandma’s village set is this house with a greenhouse attached…

Our Santa picture is getting an update this year still…

And the outdoor containers this year…

And the boys got their own little trees in their rooms this year for their own ornaments…

Our kitchen table doesn’t have much room for extra things, but you have to have a little bit of Christmas on your kitchen table…

And our main family Christmas tree…

Thanks for stopping by! 🙂

The Best Reads of 2023

It’s time to wrap my reads of 2023 in a bow, and crown my top three favorite reads of the year!

This year, I read 17 books. Every last one of them was “read” by listening them through Audible. And it’s time for me to narrow down what I’d recommend to a friend if she were to need a new book to pick up this new year.

-3- Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt :: I love a story the follows different characters that don’t seem inter-related only to find out that they do in fact have a connection. I loved this sweet Octopus. I loved Tova and her quirks, and the way that she grew to love Marcellus, the octopus. It was such a beautiful story, easy to follow, and just a fun little read.

-2- Sparks Like Stars by Nadia Hashimi :: I’m also a sucker for a book that let’s me flip back and forth between present day and the past. Trying to piece together what events made these characters act and behave in the ways they do in present day. What has shaped their thoughts, their lives. What has caused them trauma. I loved the way the main character had to grapple with the way her past came to meet her in her present. Great book!

-1- The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah :: Kristin Hannah does no wrong in my book. Her books captivate me. The writing, the characters, the way their stories interweave with each other. They break my heart and leave me endeared to them forever, and the Nightingale was no different. This book is set in World War II, and follows how women were able to assist in the war effort in Nazi held areas, risking their lives and flying under the radar because of their sex. It was simply fantastic and well deserved of my top spot for 2023!

Lauren’s Fall 2023 Book Review

It’s been many months since my last book review…many months. So I’m just going to call this my fall book review. 🙂 As always, I listened to all of these books as audiobooks. I rarely have time to sit and read an actual book…not to mention I’m the slowest reader on the face of the planet. So all of these opinions are based on listening to these books!

First up, was Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus

Chemist Elizabeth Zott is not your average woman. In fact, Elizabeth Zott would be the first to point out that there is no such thing as an average woman. But it’s the early 1960s and her all-male team at Hastings Research Institute takes a very unscientific view of equality. Except for one: Calvin Evans; the lonely, brilliant, Nobel–prize nominated grudge-holder who falls in love with—of all things—her mind. True chemistry results.

But like science, life is unpredictable. Which is why a few years later Elizabeth Zott finds herself not only a single mother, but the reluctant star of America’s most beloved cooking show Supper at Six. Elizabeth’s unusual approach to cooking (“combine one tablespoon acetic acid with a pinch of sodium chloride”) proves revolutionary. But as her following grows, not everyone is happy. Because as it turns out, Elizabeth Zott isn’t just teaching women to cook. She’s daring them to change the status quo.

Laugh-out-loud funny, shrewdly observant, and studded with a dazzling cast of supporting characters, Lessons in Chemistry is as original and vibrant as its protagonist.

(Summaries from Amazon)

What I’d say about this book was that it was mostly pretty light. It went remarkably fast. I found myself easily able to track the story and characters even while listening to it. Elizabeth Zott, the main character, is lovely. I love her independence and absolute refusal to comply with the gender norms of the time. I will say that my dislike for the book is primarily due to how uncomfortable I feel when women are not allowed to just be themselves and are held to different standards than men. I realize that was the time and era of when this book was set, but man, it just grates at me.

If you’re someone who likes to read a book before it becomes a movie/TV show, then this one might be for you. It just came out as a show on Apple TV. It’s on my list to watch sometime over Thanksgiving or Christmas break!

Next, I listened to Honor by Thrity Umrigar

In this riveting and immersive novel, bestselling author Thrity Umrigar tells the story of two couples and the sometimes dangerous and heartbreaking challenges of love across a cultural divide.

Indian American journalist Smita has returned to India to cover a story, but reluctantly: long ago she and her family left the country with no intention of ever coming back. As she follows the case of Meena—a Hindu woman attacked by members of her own village and her own family for marrying a Muslim man—Smita comes face to face with a society where tradition carries more weight than one’s own heart, and a story that threatens to unearth the painful secrets of Smita’s own past. While Meena’s fate hangs in the balance, Smita tries in every way she can to right the scales. She also finds herself increasingly drawn to Mohan, an Indian man she meets while on assignment. But the dual love stories of Honor are as different as the cultures of Meena and Smita themselves: Smita realizes she has the freedom to enter into a casual affair, knowing she can decide later how much it means to her.

In this tender and evocative novel about love, hope, familial devotion, betrayal, and sacrifice, Thrity Umrigar shows us two courageous women trying to navigate how to be true to their homelands and themselves at the same time.

This book has incredible reviews, but for the same reasons that I struggled with Lessons in Chemistry, it absolutely destroys me when women are treated so poorly and unfairly. No matter how realistic and true to life that may be, it just truly bothers me. This book was well written, easy to listen to and follow, but the content was just absolutely heart wrenching. That coupled with the love story between the journalist covering the story and the Indian guide who helps her, and I just couldn’t really give myself over to this book. The love story felt thrown in like they felt it needed the romantic aspect to round out and draw in more readers. And it just wasn’t for me.

And lastly, I listened to The Wager: A Tale of Shipwreck, Mutiny and Murder by David Grann.

On January 28, 1742, a ramshackle vessel of patched-together wood and cloth washed up on the coast of Brazil. Inside were thirty emaciated men, barely alive, and they had an extraordinary tale to tell. They were survivors of His Majesty’s Ship the Wager, a British vessel that had left England in 1740 on a secret mission during an imperial war with Spain. While the Wager had been chasing a Spanish treasure-filled galleon known as “the prize of all the oceans,” it had wrecked on a desolate island off the coast of Patagonia. The men, after being marooned for months and facing starvation, built the flimsy craft and sailed for more than a hundred days, traversing nearly 3,000 miles of storm-wracked seas. They were greeted as heroes.

But then…six months later, another, even more decrepit craft landed on the coast of Chile. This boat contained just three castaways, and they told a very different story. The thirty sailors who landed in Brazil were not heroes—they were mutineers. The first group responded with countercharges of their own, of a tyrannical and murderous senior officer and his henchmen. It became clear that while stranded on the island the crew had fallen into anarchy, with warring factions fighting for dominion over the barren wilderness. As accusations of treachery and murder flew, the Admiralty convened a court martial to determine who was telling the truth. The stakes were life-and-death—for whomever the court found guilty could hang.

The Wager is a grand tale of human behavior at the extremes told by one of our greatest nonfiction writers. Grann’s recreation of the hidden world on a British warship rivals the work of Patrick O’Brian, his portrayal of the castaways’ desperate straits stands up to the classics of survival writing such as The Endurance, and his account of the court-martial has the savvy of a Scott Turow thriller. As always with Grann’s work, the incredible twists of the narrative hold the listener spellbound.

This book was recommended to me my Dad, and it was fascinating. It was so well researched and put together to take the listener through what it was like to be a seaman in the 1700’s, what they contended with on the waters and on shore. I enjoyed the dual lens of how two groups of sailors survived their shipwreck, what transpired on the desolate island, and how they made it back to civilization. I will say, I had to slow down my normal listening speed, because it was harder to keep up with the characters and the story due to the depth of the information. But overall, a good listen!

If you’re looking for a book to pick up this holiday season, here’s what I’ve read so far this year:

My 2023 Books:

  • January:
    • Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff
    • Christmas in Peachtree Bluff by Kristy Woodson Harvey
  • March:
    • The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver
    • Spare by Prince Harry
    • Sparks Like Stars by Nadia Hashimi
    • The Light We Carry by Michelle Obama
  • March/April:
    • The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
    • Cribsheet by Emily Oster
  • June:
    • Shoe Dog by Phil Knight
    • The 5 Love Languages of Children
    • Remarkably Bright Creatures
  • August:
    • The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling (podcast)
    • I’ll Be Gone in the Dark by Michelle McNamara
    • The Storyteller by Jodi Picoult
    • Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish

Friday Favorites {11.03.23}

Holiday weeks always feel long to me. Even though the kids had school every day this week, there’s something about a mid-week holiday celebration that gets me all out of whack on my days. And this weekend we’re going to throw in daylight savings time just to round up the craziness! Maybe my kids will sleep in their extra hour on Sunday. 🙂

We had a good and fun week, and can’t wait to share some of my favorites with YOU!

While the VERY cold weather meant that we had relatively few trick-or-treaters this year, we had SO MUCH FUN taking the boys out for Halloween. The neighborhood kids were running from door to door. And Harrison and Jonathan I’m pretty sure could have gone for another full block of houses…or two. But Mom and Dad were cold, so they had to resort to going back to the house to sort and sample their candy.

This post made me laugh out loud because I vividly remember my Dad having absolutely no recollection of who my fellow dance friends were even though he had been hearing about them and been around them for seven+ years.

The outcome of the Chiefs v Broncos game last weekend was definitely NOT a favorite. But having all of these little Chiefs fans keeping me company on the Chiefs couch, definitely was a favorite! Maybe they like cheering for the Chiefs because of the rise it gets out of their dad, but I’m not complaining either way.

I ran outside to take a picture of my fall mums before our nighttime temps started dipping down 20* the last few nights. Not sure they will survive that kind of cold spell, but I’m also ready for a gardening break for the winter.

That’s all for me this week! Hope you guys have a great weekend!

Friday Favorites {10.06.23}

Happy weekend, friends! Construction on the basement is in full swing over here. It is loud and messy, but already looks so different! I can’t wait for it to be done so we can use the space, and it’s only a week in….it’ll be worth it in the end.

I have a random handful of things that have brought me joy this week!

I can’t even begin to wrap my head around this actually being thing. But I am all in for the Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce combo.

I’m in for the merch. I’m in for the Taylor watch. I’m in for the mash-ups of Taylor songs with Kelce dancing. I’m in for it.

….adding to my mug collection this October 🙂

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